Oz has a great but very simply philosophy - that everybody had a heart, that everybody had a brain, that everybody had courage. These were the gifts that were given to people on this earth, and if you used them properly, you reached the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. And that pot of gold was a home. And a home isn't just a house or an abode..., Its people. People who love you and that you love. That's home. - Ray Bolger aka the Scarecrow
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
hundred dollar oven
Monday, September 28, 2009
This is how you do it
Friday, September 25, 2009
what scripture study looks like at our house
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Saving more money
Monday, September 21, 2009
there is too much, I will sum up
- There is Kyle's broken car. We are going to try to fix her ( is your car a her or a him) Ours like ships are mostly beautiful maidens - We have found all the needed parts at a junkyard for around $400 bucks, so next paycheck we'll buy them, haul them a way in a in our lovely minivan (thank goodness for her) then we will delve into some DIY body work.
- Speaking of DIY, we changed the oil ourselves on said minivan this weekend. We were quite satisfied with ourselves when all was said and done. Especially when we realized that the wal-mart had been putting the wrong oil type in our van!
- I have notes from the other kiddo's inteviews to blog about but I also have pictures to take and work on so for another day - but here is a little update about them anyway.
- Benjamin is growing up - you know how I can tell? he is getting sarcastic and its CRACKS ME UP - like when he told his dad yesterday "Geez man how long did it take you to ever get a girl!"
- Ella got new glasses again. The pair that was $130 were driving me crazy slipping off her nose. So we headed to walmart and got some frames that were perfect for $9 bucks!!
- Maiya has taken to talking non-stop ALL THE TIME - if you listen to her great if you don't that's ok too she'll just keep talking and talking and talking and talking and talking
- Cora, oh sweet Cora - is there nothing cuter than little chubby fingers waving goodbye. She is very into waving she can do the open hand close hand wave, or the open hand wave violently side to side wave - which often turns into clapping.
Wait I have one more, because I love how Elder Holland doesn't mince words in this one - want to read more go here
Thursday, September 17, 2009
UPDATE
I was going to blog but I was too stressed.
First I was going to tell you all about how I drastically changed my mind and enrolled Maiya in Janette's awesome preschool two days a week. After three weeks of trying to teach Maiya three measly letters and her staring at me like I was crazy I thought she would love to try a little preschool. And since Janette I and I see eye to eye on politics she can move onto teaching Maiya social studies when they are done with the alphabet (just kiddin)
Monday, September 14, 2009
Kyle's comment deserves its own post
This is Kyle- (apologies that my initial few thoughts turned into a book)
I felt like throwing in on this one since it has gotten so many comments. I agree with Janie and others here that the government 'answer' is the wrong way to go but thought I would interject a different way to look at this whole thing.
Other programs of note - Medicare/Welfare/Social Security - noble in purpose maybe but in the hands of the government = waste/fraud/bankruptcy. Again, the answer - just add it to the debt and keep on borrowing. The image of Dory from Finding Nemo comes to mind with a slight change - 'Just keep borrowing' 'Just keep borrowing'...
Bottom line - there isn't the accountability/oversight/and talent within the government to properly handle these types of programs even if it was their job. Which it is NOT. Show me in the founding documents where government is given these roles.
That being said, let's assume for a moment this healthcare change needs to happen. We are told not to worry about the cost since it will be paid for by eliminating waste in other gov't programs. Ok, great - cut the waste now. Why do we need to wait until there is something else to throw the money into before we cut costs? Cut the waste now - prove that it can be done and proponents of this plan get a major victory.
From where I stand, universal healthcare is just another failure waiting to happen. I don't understand why there is this need to change everything right now - right away - it can't wait another minute. There are things that could be improved in healthcare, no doubt, but we have the greatest healthcare in the world. Why break the whole system just because a small percentage of people don't have it? If it is so important, take the time to do it right - don't rush something just to say there was 'change' and we aren't maintaining the 'status-quo'. Like Janie's teacher told her, once the gov't takes something over, they NEVER let it go. So even if the ultimate goal is not to socialize medicine, this is still one giant leap down that path that we will never be able to return from.
Friday, September 11, 2009
Been there, seen the mess UPDATED
1. I don't give a rip if any President of the US wants to deliver a speech to my child during school. Looking back to when I was in school ... I would have slept through it anyway. Any child of mine would do the same.
However, if I am lucky enough to foster a child with Gary's intelligence level, and said child DOES stay awake ... and listens ... and then remembers it enough to come home and tell me about it ... and I don't agree with what the President said ... I'll say something. And if my punk kid doesn't listen, I'll just tell said kid that the President isn't real. And if my punk doesn't believe me ... then I'll ask him if he'd like to give the {current} President 40% of his hard earned money so that the kids who don't work/won't work/refuse to work/or are currently 'in between jobs' can have his hard earned money instead. When he says 'no', that will be sufficient.
2. I really wish that people would quit voting based on moral ethics, ie: abortion, gay marriage, etc, and start voting on actual political and economic issues; we fought against all odds to earn this free country ... where people had the right to be rich or poor. Their desires and work ethics decided their destiny; not whether or not the current President was going to offer a supplemental income in the form of a welfare check or not.
3. Democracy has been tried hundreds of times throughout history. It fails every. single. time. Every time. The United States' democracy is the oldest/longest running democracy in history ... and it's hanging by a thread. Why? Because we have now hit the point where the 'have nots' out number the 'haves' ... and said 'have nots' will continue to elect whatever President promises the most handouts. It's a simple, historical, mathematical equation.
4. I have very little sympathy for people who are out of work ... insisting on some inflated pay check because their education and/or experience warrants it. Guess what? My husband and I both have degrees. My smarty pants husband graduated with the highest GPA in his major (Finance), and graduated Summa Cum Laude (less than 2% of graduates graduate SUMMA cum laude). Gary is brilliant. The smartest guy I know. And when he found himself unemployed, he took a job making less than half of what society would say he's worth. And he's getting ready to start his second job, working for UPS ... to make up the difference. To sacrifice. To sacrifice so that our kids will have better. That's what being a dang grown-up means. Start baggin' groceries, selling pest control, or loading up freight trucks, why don't ya?
5. When I hear democratic figures telling me that we aren't headed for socialism ... and that the rich can afford to help out the poor ... it makes. me. want. to. scream. READ THE STUPID DEFINITION OF SOCIALISM ... and THEN tell me, straight faced, that our government is not acting like a socialist economy. Who do these clowns think they are?! We live in the United States of America. And somehow, we've elected a President who thinks he has the right to take taxpayer money ... and then distribute it amongst people who refuse (yes, I said refuse) to work hard. Nothing is off limits in this country. Nothing. If you want it. There is a man at our church, also with a finance degree, who works hard and provides a wonderful home for his family. AND, when he gets done with his first job, he heads over to his second job -- bagging groceries for less than $10/hour ... because that's what it takes. He (and his wife) decided they wanted a nice home/cars/life ... so he makes sacrifices for it to happen. When did {so many} Americans forget what it was that our ancestors fought for?
6. I'm not really sorry for this rant ... this is just what happens when I read the following comment {on Facebook}:
"__________ is tired of the obamanoia and socialismobia"
and then the reply below it:
"I think we are suffering from mine-o-phobia. The fear of sharing."
Un. Freakin. Believable.
News Flash:
I'm not over here taking in 18 kids a week to teach colors and shapes to ... and Gary isn't working from 8a-5p and then heading straight to another job to work 5:30p-9:30p; leaving the house at 7am and getting home at 10:30pm ... just so that we can 'share'.
AND, for the record ... I share all the time. I don't think I could possibly count the number of paintings that I have done for. free. Or the times I've watched some one's kids for. free. There have been times when we have had plenty ... and during those times, I've given and given and given.
REVISED TO ADD:
7. Politicians who promise handouts and health care and boat loads of government spending (democratic or republican) are only promising those things because ... they need a job! They're in a job interview. They're promising the world, the moon, the stars, etc. ... because they don't want to lost their jobs and they know what it takes to stay employed.
8. I know that Gary and I do not currently fall into the 40% tax bracket; however, for my entire life, my parents have. AND ... I plan on following suit when it comes to monetary success. And I hope that by that time, we've gotten back on the path that our ancestors started for us. The brave men and women who fought to make this a free country (free from GOVERNMENT running people's lives, free to be able to be filthy stinkin' rich without someone deciding they were 'too' rich, etc.) have GOT to be cringing at what the US has become. The entitlement kills me.
9. The current administration believes that health insurance is not a luxury, it's a right. I agree. That's why you pay for it before you pay your mortgage and car payments. If you can't afford your mortgage and car payments after it ... you 1. get another job, or 2. move & down grade your cars.
10. If health insurance is a right ... how come housing isn't? Someone should pay all of our mortgages because we live in America and we should all have housing. No one should be homeless. And how about clothes. I suppose that clothing is a right too. And food ... and in Texas, air conditioning. We're on a very slippery slope. Trust me, health insurance is just the first hurdle towards providing everyone everything ... so that we are all equal ... and the 'have nots' can have the same things as the 'haves' ... without having to actually work for it.
I sorta go a little crazy ... when I hear things like $900 BILLION to pay for other people's health insurance because they refuse (yes, I said REFUSE) to take care of themselves ... I get a little heated. I understand that we do need to take care of the handicapped ... and those wholiterally cannot take care of themselves ... but the population of people who fit into that category is so unbelievably small ... it would be a drop in the bucket to care for them. And that, is how it should be.
When/where the crap will the sense of entitlement end?
And please, don't bother arguing with me. I will never, ever, ever, see your side. Never. (But we can still be friends ... because there is more to life than politics)
It's been said that you can measure the character of a man based on what he does when he's backed up against the wall. Does he sit down and cry ... or come out swinging?
I choose to come out swinging. Every. Single. Time.
Tuesday, September 08, 2009
things I don't mind spending money on...
- quality appliances - a used quality appliance is better than a cheap version anyday.
- bulk items - I will spend more to grocery shop knowing I paid the rock bottom per unit price
- high speed Internet
- a good bra
- books - yes I know about the library but sometimes you just want some books to be yours
- babysitters
- vacations