Monday, October 23, 2006
B: Mommy why do drugs turn you inside out? - I can see his boy brain working - picturing your internal organs on top of your skin...
J: (I'm thinking - you act crazy, sell your soul or your body or both, hallucinate, puke in public, curse, steal, act like a fool, etc.) "Well Benjamin you don't act right - you can be lazy, mean and crazy and all you think about is getting more drugs"
B: still slightly confused "Oh" - " but what about the drugstore"
J: "Well some drugs are good - like the ones that doctors give you - but if you take the ones from the doctor too much or the wrong way or if you get bad drugs from people that aren't doctors - that's bad"
B: slightly more confused - "oh"
J: Now my brain is churning - do other mothers actually call the drugs by name? Well Benjamin there is pot, heroine, crack cocaine, etc...? He is only six!
"Come on with your backwards clothes lets go catch the bus"
Now it’s not really the funny clothes thing that bothers me - the kids love that and its fun. But dramatizing the issue at school for a whole week? Does anyone else think that sometimes the "just say no" thing makes drugs seem cooler? If kids start hearing about it from kindergarten on they are going to have a pretty healthy curiosity by time they actually get confronted with the issue.
Now parents should talk about these things with kids - but saying it all the time and making it this cheesy thing could backfire.
Thursday, October 19, 2006
So this morning I left Ella watching the Today show while I went to the bathroom. When I came back she said I have been watching and "the New Katie Couric" and "Matt Flower" haven't said anything about your birthday yet. LOL
Tuesday, October 17, 2006
Here is our new beauty - its a 2003 Toyota Sienna Symphony. We are loving it. My favorite feature is the power sliding door. Now I have to be honest the first time I saw that feature on someone else's van I thought come on that is the height of laziness. But I have to confess it is awesome!! - The kids can easily let themselves in and out. Arms full of groceries - just hit the button or let the kids hit the button. Picking Benjamin up from school - just hit the button and he can let himself in. It is so nice. Its is also much more spacious - I can actually fit groceries without anyone holding stuff in their laps ;)
I have named her Gracie - Ella calls her golden Gracie. Kyle refuses to call her by her name :)
We sold the Kia - so for the time being we are a two minivan family - till the Chevy gives up - but we are hoping that doesn't happen for a while. Did I just jinx us?
Tuesday, October 10, 2006
Ella - "That person from church realized me at the store because they had seen me before"
"I saw the big mess and I got so ignored with it"
Benjamin's new best friend TJ - "How long did your mom say you could play here?" - "Oh about 12 hours I think" - One hour later - "Time to go home now TJ, we are about to eat dinner" - "But I've only been here like fifteen minutes"
Benjamin was sent to fix his hair this morning and he came back out of the bathroom with completely soapy hair - "I don't think this is the stuff daddy puts in his hair because its turning white." NO Benjamin that is soap and the bus will be here in four minutes!!